Is it normal to think other girls are pretty

At least, as long as you leave it at a glance. After following newlywed couples for three and a half years, researchers at Florida State University discovered that those who looked away quickly after spotting an attractive other were 50 percent less likely to cheat on their partner than those who held their gaze on someone they found fetching.

If enjoying the scenery becomes a routine practice, it might be time to look inward and at the health of your relationship. Ask yourself what is really going on. Accept that you find the person hot, own the fact that you looked quickly, hopefully , then move on. There's more to being bi and lesbian than sexual attraction: I don't understand the thumbs down,but whatever:D. I would imagine that the thumbs down may be due to your concession that Megan Fox isn't attractive.

You know how much of a hatedom she has Oh,yea,I imagine it was a girl who thumbed me down: I could care less: She whoever thumbed me down should get some security before bashing another person:. I'm a 15 year old girl and I have had crushes on boys and I've never really thought about it but I'm scared that I'm lesbian because I sometimes think other girls are pretty, Does that make me a lesbian or bi or am I just a straight girl who just thinks other girls are pretty?

I'm really scared I'm a lesbian and I don't want to be. Share Facebook. Is it normal to think people of the same sex pretty? Add Opinion. G-Daz opinions shared on Sexuality topic. I can't really tell you if its normal or not, ill leave that to a girl to tell you, they have a much better perspective on this being that they are girls too but as a guy what I can tell you from my point of view is that, iv never really questioned this myself, iv noticed that obviously other guys can be good looking but its just something I take as a grain of salt, its just something I notice at the moment and I don't really think back about it or even think much of it after first glance.

I don't know if this relates to you in any way but that's how I see it and by that definition, no your deffinitly not lesbien or bi. Right now, your young and your hormones are all over the place, as you get older it will balance things out for you more and you will be able to discover who you are yourself.

I don't think finding another female as attractive would be sufficient enough to say that you are a lesbien or bi. I think in order for that, there needs to be some sort of desire to take it forward further. I think many factors could contribute to being a lesbien but just noticing that a girl is attractive is not one of them.

Is this still revelant? That is something you don't know how to do, and a counselor can help you with. Where the problem lays, is the fact that you are uncomfortable with your own body image. That isn't your boyfriend's fault and he can stop watching those shows or going to the movies that have any women in them You have to feel better about YOU. Movie stars are gorgeous because they have of thousands of dollars to spend on personal trainers and cosmetic surgery Same with the porn stars on Howard Stern And you are grilling him like he's oogling a checkout girl at the local grocery store.

He doesn't want to be around you if you are going to treat him like that If he says no, you think he is lying, if he says yes You need to find a way to find the confidence in yourself I read your original post, and have some thoughts.

Firstly, it's not the body that's important. It's the person. Yes, you should be attracted to someone physically, but that's not the main thing. Society pushes bodies in front of us all the time, but that's just the packaging. If the contents are spoiled, why bother? So even if he thinks some friends are attractive, that doesn't mean much more than saying Mount Rushmore is attractive. Is he going to run off with Abraham Lincoln now?

So for your own personal growth, just leave the questioning about "do you think she's attractive Don't go there any more - what's the point? Instead, grow your relationship with him as a human being, and keep the sex stuff in perspective. I wish someone with some slightly same feelings could reply because i just feel like a terrible person all of a sudden.

I mean i do anything for him.. OR someone posting to you could be a counselor I know you'd like someone to say he's a jerk for saying someone is pretty, or how dare he watch howard stern Honestly, a negative body image and lower self esteem is probably affecting more parts of your life than just your relationship To be honest with you, the best way to get past feeling the way you are feeling is to focus all of this energy into yourself. Nothing makes a guy notice you more than when he sees you becoming more condfident in yourself whether you do it bycoming off as if you're not interested in him anymore and that you've become the more important person here.

Realize that you are still young and the chances of the guy being "the one" are pretty slim. I never knew anyone your age that didn't want to meet other people, especially since the two of you have already been together this long and you are only 20 years old.

There are many men out there to still meet, and believe me, your attitiude and standards will change a few times before you hit the end of your twenties.

A guy his age probably has several years of porno and stripper bars to go to before he grows up. Are you prepared for this to get worse because I can be pretty certain it will. Don't let him make you think that this is normal and you are supposed to be jealous. Alot of times this is the lazy man's excuse for not paying attention to his partner. He watches his stuff then goes to bed but what about your needs?

I dont want someone to say he is a jerk at all, but i want someone to say that they have related to this so i can understand where they are coming from, i respect everyone's opinion. But i just feel that the way other people think about the other sex is wrong.

He doesn't come out and say o shes hot, but i dont want some attractive girl walking by and him thinking in his head that. I mean I'm human. Doesn't mean i have to go to counseling, i am facing this and i dont just block it out that is why i am asking for advice especially from someone who can relate.

So my advice is two fold. Sorry sweetie, but that just isn't in the cards. Now if any hot girl goes by and he's craning his neck, drooling and howling while he is with you.. I have a very hard time believing that you haven't "noticed" a guy somewhere you have been that stands out. Doesn't mean you want to go jump them I think it depends on the frequency of it.

If it's everywhere you go, more than once just randomly saying 'cor, she's fit' I can understand why you're feeling hurt. My dh wouldn't say it about someone in the street but we frequently talk about celebs we think are hot, in fact, the other day over lunch we were playing snog, marry, push off a cliff! It was hilarious! He also knows I found the guy who fitted my windows very good looking.

When I called him to tell him which company I wanted to go with the hot guy, but his quote was better, honest!

At the end of the day, regardless of what boundaries are in other relationships, if you're feeling hurt then you need to speak to him and explain this, he's not a mind reader x.

In answer to Jjqp63lch. Nope my OH is the same. It's just banter with us to be honest. He just does it to tease me.

I'm pretty confident in my relationship and vice versa. With the exception of Michelle Keegan who he drools over let's be honest, who can blame him then no. Family and other relationships Relate: how much does it cost and does it 'work'.

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